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Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Sad News.

We lost the baby.
The sonogram today did not go well. Dr. B thinks that the baby probably died before I ever even knew that I was pregnant. I was probably between 8 & 10 weeks, but my uterine growth was retarded to 7w1d. Dr.B says that in cases like this, it is most likely severe chromosomal defects that cause the malformation or sudden stop in formation of the embryo/fetus. But, your body is still technically pregnant, since there was the initial union of the sperm & egg into an embryo...so you still get all of the symptoms of pregnancy, but you get no baby to carry to term, to take home, etc.

We'll have a D&C tomorrow.

Thanks for all of the well wishes & support.

We're just sad. It's been a whirlwind of unexpected joy & now heartache.

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29 Comments:

At 10:10 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm am so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your husband. Keeping you in my prayers. Big Hug again!

 
At 10:31 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm so very sorry. ((hugs)). I will be thinking of you and your family.

 
At 10:35 AM , Blogger Judy said...

So sorry, hon. The residual effects will linger, I know from experience. (((HUGS))) and prayers for you.

 
At 10:47 AM , Blogger shoeaddict said...

I'm sorry. I prayed for you last night. I'll pray for you today.

 
At 11:02 AM , Blogger Kate said...

I'm so sorry. You're in my prayers.

 
At 11:13 AM , Blogger Papa Bradstein said...

We're so sorry to hear that. We're keeping you in our thoughts.

 
At 12:04 PM , Blogger A. Nonny Mouse said...

Oh Lainey, I am so sorry. Sending hugs and prayers your way.

 
At 12:26 PM , Blogger Shauna Loves Chocolate said...

I'm so sorry, Laine.
Take care.
Lots of hugs to you and Damon!

 
At 1:12 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry, hun. I've had 2 losses. Please email me if you need to talk.

(((((((hugs)))))))

 
At 1:24 PM , Blogger CBM said...

I know from experience that there are really no words that truly comfort you in this painful time. But if it would help you at all to commiserate with someone who's been there (in almost the exact same way!), please do not hesitate to contact me! Know that I am praying for you and Damon.

You will get through this. Hang in there.

 
At 1:43 PM , Blogger Stephanie said...

I am so very sorry. You and your family are in my prayers. ((~Hugs~))

 
At 4:16 PM , Blogger Beth said...

Of course you are sad - and you are grieving.
Take care - and know there are so many people thinking of you, wishing you comfort and love.

 
At 4:17 PM , Blogger Christy said...

I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you.

 
At 5:10 PM , Blogger Pokey Puppy said...

Oh laney.. I'm so sorry. I'll think about you.

 
At 6:25 PM , Blogger misguidedmommy said...

Here if you need to talk!!!!!!

 
At 6:50 PM , Blogger Eva said...

So, so sorry to read that. I know there's nothing one can say to make you feel better, but I do hope you have time to nurture and take care of yourself.

 
At 6:57 PM , Blogger Mojavi said...

i am so sorry.... just sucks..

 
At 6:58 PM , Blogger Pam said...

Rats.

 
At 7:01 PM , Blogger mamashine said...

I'm so very sorry. I know how hard it is.

 
At 7:07 PM , Blogger Raesha D said...

I'm so sorry...I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

 
At 7:23 PM , Blogger Unknown said...

Oh, I'm just heartbroken to read your post. I've had two miscarriages and I know that it just knocks the wind out of you emotionally. You just get through it, give yourself some time, and give lots of hugs to your beautiful boy. I'm sending good vibes your way.

 
At 8:01 PM , Blogger Maria said...

Oh, dear...I am so so sorry, Lainey.

 
At 8:19 PM , Blogger Gigi said...

i'm so sorry to hear that...let yourself mourn....i have a "box" with my sonogram...prgenancy stick and a flower from my neighbor when i lost my baby...i will keep your family in my prayers....

 
At 10:20 PM , Blogger xxxx said...

Oh, sweetie. I am so, so sorry.

 
At 12:38 AM , Blogger Em said...

Oh my god! I am so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you

 
At 4:40 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Aw honey. I'm sorry.

I am thinking of you sweet woman.

{{{hugs}}}

 
At 6:33 AM , Blogger Unknown said...

I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. I don't think there is anything I can say will make you're heartaches go away but I really wish there was.

 
At 12:33 PM , Blogger S said...

So sorry.

 
At 4:18 PM , Blogger angie said...

So sorry to hear about this. I am definitely thinking of you through this.

 

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