tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post7155132330294148991..comments2023-12-26T19:12:44.777-08:00Comments on Life Is Just So Daily: Unpregnant. (Maybe too graphic for some)Lainey-Paneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07722187515774744428noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-47258318474437788722007-08-05T07:30:00.000-07:002007-08-05T07:30:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, and ...I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, and I thank you for sharing those details that so many women wonder about.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-60420263342148900352007-07-30T13:54:00.000-07:002007-07-30T13:54:00.000-07:00I decided to spend today getting caught up and fou...I decided to spend today getting caught up and found this news. I'm so very sorry for you and your family. It's a horrible, terrible thing to go through and I hope you're all able to find some sort of peace as you deal with the aftermath of this all.<BR/><BR/>My thoughts are definitely with you.<BR/><BR/>Take care.Denver Dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16658973022353051249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-75894912067266029882007-07-26T20:55:00.000-07:002007-07-26T20:55:00.000-07:00It is remarkable to me how similar your feelings h...It is remarkable to me how similar your feelings have been to the ones I felt last July when we went through this the first time. Right down to taking Gage to Chuck E. Cheese. I had a coupon in hand and was ready to walk out the door when the plan changed, but all I wanted to do was get lost in the fun of my two-year-old. <BR/><BR/>I, too, cried myself to sleep the night before my surgery, knowing it was the last night I would have with my child.<BR/><BR/>I, too, insisted on seeing the "products of conception" in the plastic container. I just had to know what was taken from me.<BR/><BR/>I, too, didn't want to talk about it much, especially when talking to a new person made the feelings flood to the surface again and again, and I was all cried out. <BR/><BR/>And as you may recall, part of my grieving process was writing it all out on my blog too (last July and last November, if it would help you at all to read again). I think that is a very healthy thing to do. Don't concern yourself with your readers. Just do what you need to do to get through the hardest part. <BR/><BR/>And allow yourself the freedom to grieve whenever it strikes you again. And that may be at odd times throughout the coming year(s?). I never expected to feel so sad on the anniv. of my D&C last week, when I'm finally having a healthy pregnancy, but I mourned all over again that day. They are our children, right from the beginning. And it's okay to love them, even if they were only the size of a lima bean or whatever. <BR/><BR/>It's so easy to say the wrong thing. I hope I haven't. Please know that I'm praying for your healing, in every way.CBMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02828692385492114233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-65658468671731054562007-07-26T14:39:00.000-07:002007-07-26T14:39:00.000-07:00Oh, Laney--I'm so sorry, I'm crying for you. I wa...Oh, Laney--I'm so sorry, I'm crying for you. I was out of town for the last week and just picked up on your recent posts. What a whirlwind. Wishing you peace and so thankful you have little Gage.Reidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08122888624490754715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-83161469961949430642007-07-26T12:08:00.000-07:002007-07-26T12:08:00.000-07:00I hope that blogging about it was helpful to you. ...I hope that blogging about it was helpful to you. I'm glad you have a good support system (including your health providers!!), but I know you still hurt. Take care.Shauna Loves Chocolatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230467569621226082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-85900281461627316762007-07-26T09:58:00.000-07:002007-07-26T09:58:00.000-07:00Now's not the time to worry about being too graphi...Now's not the time to worry about being too graphic or too this or too that. Now's the time to be you, and not worry about what other people want or expect. Your post showed your compassion and love for everyone around you--your mom, Damon, Gage, your baby--which is one of the many reasons we all love you and are here for you (along with your love of all things 80's). We can't do much from here, but we will listen to (OK--read) whatever it is that you want to say. And we're keeping you in our thoughts, sending warm thoughts your way.Papa Bradsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09795913459610115195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-50788009642588204712007-07-26T09:24:00.000-07:002007-07-26T09:24:00.000-07:00I'm so very sorry. I haven't been able to blog ho...I'm so very sorry. I haven't been able to blog hop and this was the first I heard about what was going on.<BR/><BR/>I haven't been through this, but I imagine I would feel and think everything you described. Thank you for putting your feelings into words so the rest of us can have a small idea of what you're going through.<BR/><BR/>Rest and grieve and do whatever it is you need to do. <BR/><BR/>Much love to you and your family.Jensterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15639970448069931471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-78703155672282379482007-07-26T06:00:00.000-07:002007-07-26T06:00:00.000-07:00I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing your story.I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing your story.Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00977781470147646616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-87902062177463417402007-07-26T05:36:00.000-07:002007-07-26T05:36:00.000-07:00No sweetie. I'm so sorry.I wish I could hug you ri...No sweetie. I'm so sorry.<BR/><BR/>I wish I could hug you right now.<BR/><BR/>Please rest and get better.<BR/><BR/>(((((hugs))))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-52636071585029202642007-07-26T05:27:00.000-07:002007-07-26T05:27:00.000-07:00My dear friend, I was thinking of you all day yest...My dear friend, I was thinking of you all day yesterday and hoping and praying that you were ok. I think you are truly amazing! In all you are going through I was touched that you shared how you met your husband on my post from the other day. XOXO - PattyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-62134454589177091982007-07-26T05:15:00.000-07:002007-07-26T05:15:00.000-07:00(((((you)))))(((((you)))))zireldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14792721036817871681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-2313689604245962282007-07-25T19:47:00.000-07:002007-07-25T19:47:00.000-07:00Such a good description, whether you are on pain m...Such a good description, whether you are on pain meds or not. I've been through it twice and it's just like a punch in the stomach emotionally. <BR/><BR/>You rest up. We're all sending you electronic hugs :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01029244567686979589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-67658220626223202582007-07-25T18:27:00.000-07:002007-07-25T18:27:00.000-07:00just remember it's okay to be sad and to feel...th...just remember it's okay to be sad and to feel...the pain eases up in time...i hate that saying so much...time heals all wounds....but it does. I wish i thought to have asked to see the aftermath of it all when i had my d&c....i'm wondering if it would have started the process sooner for me...but that baby will always always live on in my heart as will yours...one year to the day that i had my d&c i had my 3rd son...time.Gigihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18003628811488568759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-58940127448852011072007-07-25T18:09:00.000-07:002007-07-25T18:09:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I don't t...I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I don't think it's weird that you had to look. I had a miscarriage (2 actually) at home and I kept looking for "something". I know that may sound weird. I didn't want to just flush, I dont know... <BR/>I'm glad you're blogging and glad you have Gage to love and family who love you. <BR/><BR/>I'm praying for youshoeaddicthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06540488940347979388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-57257341006185099682007-07-25T18:08:00.000-07:002007-07-25T18:08:00.000-07:00I am so sorry. There are no other words that I kno...I am so sorry. There are no other words that I know to type. It's awful that you and your family have to go through this. You are in my prayers.Pregnantly Plumphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16520084082888706200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-84892068620533966012007-07-25T17:42:00.000-07:002007-07-25T17:42:00.000-07:00Oh, sweetie, I feel so badly for you. Crying is g...Oh, sweetie, I feel so badly for you. Crying is good - it's normal. You need to grieve.<BR/>I'm glad you shared your story - I hope doing so helped just a little bit. <BR/>Still thinking of you - take care.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14110235078325434919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-64025985806777726902007-07-25T17:27:00.000-07:002007-07-25T17:27:00.000-07:00I'm very sorry for you loss. Thinking of you and ...I'm very sorry for you loss. Thinking of you and hope you feel better soon.Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10312142897667859239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-71247314990849961022007-07-25T17:12:00.000-07:002007-07-25T17:12:00.000-07:00Hang in there, girl. Hug Gage tight and enjoy him...Hang in there, girl. Hug Gage tight and enjoy him a little more.<BR/><BR/>Been thinking of you.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14858511221598789469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-31780317621881482672007-07-25T17:02:00.000-07:002007-07-25T17:02:00.000-07:00You know what.. if its to graphic for anyone then ...You know what.. if its to graphic for anyone then can turn away and not look. I think it is GREAT that you are using this blog. Its a great form of therapy. And everyhting you are feeling EVERYTHING you are feeling and everything you are saying is COMPLETLY normal.... <BR/><BR/>Try to keep busy.. it will help.. for now.... it will never go away.. the pain and the memory will always be there. but i promise.. it will get easier to deal with.Pokey Puppyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07328489333212802779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-60633465273075301202007-07-25T16:59:00.000-07:002007-07-25T16:59:00.000-07:00I'm glad you shared. But I'm sorry you had this s...I'm glad you shared. But I'm sorry you had this story to share. Feel better. ((hugs))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-72974325999349346002007-07-25T16:31:00.000-07:002007-07-25T16:31:00.000-07:00I am so deeply sorry this happened. I think you ar...I am so deeply sorry this happened. I think you are very brave. I wish you all the best and hang in there, ok.Beenzzzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15167283834612916683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-202712737218925462007-07-25T16:24:00.000-07:002007-07-25T16:24:00.000-07:00Sniff sniff... snuffle.. sniff... waaaaaaahhh... O...Sniff sniff... snuffle.. sniff... waaaaaaahhh... Oh you so made me cry! Geeze I just read you a few days ago and I guess I can miss a LOT in a couple of days... <BR/><BR/>I feel for you, I really do!... I am so tearing up here at work in my stupid stained pants.. Hang in there. Oh and for the love of gob have a glass of wine or two for the both of us, will ya??<BR/><BR/>Hugs!! OOOOOOOOOOOOOJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11571662009601634638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-39435199633382528052007-07-25T16:07:00.000-07:002007-07-25T16:07:00.000-07:00Thank you for sharing all of that. It wasn't too g...Thank you for sharing all of that. It wasn't too graphic and I think it will help others who unfortunately have to go through something similar.<BR/><BR/>You and your family remain in my prayers.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15456733077542868694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-35679686883725726922007-07-25T15:32:00.001-07:002007-07-25T15:32:00.001-07:00yup totally still on bed rest. i'm wearing jammie...yup totally still on bed rest. i'm wearing jammie pants and a relaxed shirt. believe it or not i considered this dressed up for dropping off my son. i'll find out tomorrow if i'm off bed rest. still wont dress any nicermisguidedmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10512111894191254653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-12779916204101839392007-07-25T15:32:00.000-07:002007-07-25T15:32:00.000-07:00I cant begin to tell you how your post has affecte...I cant begin to tell you how your post has affected me, I was just going along my usual routine of looking at crafty blogs and then I rand across yours. The title of the post Unpregnant caught me so I started to read and then I became sad for you and felt kinda like crying, I just had my sixth and final son 9 weeks ago and Icant imagine having lost any of them, im sorry and I hope you will feel better soon. All babies go to heaven, take care and I will think of you.<BR/><BR/>Mimi<BR/>www.domestichaven.wordpress.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13739107395724334908noreply@blogger.com