tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post4736454956505997278..comments2023-12-26T19:12:44.777-08:00Comments on Life Is Just So Daily: Pity Party....and You're All Invited.Lainey-Paneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07722187515774744428noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-52470413949784663342008-04-28T15:23:00.000-07:002008-04-28T15:23:00.000-07:00Feeling sad and down is fine and, I think, a good ...Feeling sad and down is fine and, I think, a good idea. I can tell you, though, having been where you are, you will be okay. In time. xo.Barriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04678698296265168217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-84978048344267007362008-04-28T11:05:00.000-07:002008-04-28T11:05:00.000-07:00Hey, thanks so much for visiting my blog and leavi...Hey, thanks so much for visiting my blog and leaving such a nice comment! I've been looking through yours a bit, and this post really touched me. I'm so sorry for your loss. There is a wonderful blog out there written by a mom who recently lost her baby in the seventh month. I think it might be really comforting to you. Here's the address: http://audreycaroline.blogspot.com/<BR/><BR/>Again, thanks for stopping by my blog! Take care!Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08780332353141865219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-10122322206065276762008-04-27T19:02:00.000-07:002008-04-27T19:02:00.000-07:00OH sweetie. I know how this feels first hand. An...OH sweetie. I know how this feels first hand. And there are days it's so first and foremost on your mind it's hard to shake the sadness. Just know....no matter what...we're hear to listen and support when you need to talk. xoxoxo.Ann(ie)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00671535020245819924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-15983947290981683842008-04-27T08:28:00.000-07:002008-04-27T08:28:00.000-07:00I am so sorry. It is definitely not your fault tha...I am so sorry. It is definitely not your fault that what happened, happened. I know that me saying that won't change the guilt. I also hate that you didn't get the closure you needed. Maybe you could have a burial ceremony anyway? I don't know. I want to offer help, but maybe instead you just need people to listen. I know I get frustrated when people try to solve my problems, when I only want them to listen.<BR/>You and Masyn are in my prayers.Pregnantly Plumphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16520084082888706200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-2336919499521387882008-04-26T22:09:00.000-07:002008-04-26T22:09:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry that you've had to go through this. ...I'm so sorry that you've had to go through this. I send lots of good thoughts, prayers, and hugs. And any time you feel rotten and want to share, go for it. I hope the catharsis helped at least a little.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15456733077542868694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-14737559715063960842008-04-26T09:32:00.000-07:002008-04-26T09:32:00.000-07:00Sharing in your tears and your loss. October 15th...Sharing in your tears and your loss. October 15th will be a date I will remember in honor of Masyn. Thank you for sharing your story you have touched many lifes with your words. Thinking of you and your family.Shawnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09748052462782710111noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-73014466369152365952008-04-26T04:22:00.000-07:002008-04-26T04:22:00.000-07:00We all live with regrets, big and small, it's just...We all live with regrets, big and small, it's just a sad part of life. I have no words to really help you with this one mate... time heals is really all I can say. {{{BIG HUG}}}Chris Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03599144462630400401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-28477375518028733482008-04-25T20:48:00.000-07:002008-04-25T20:48:00.000-07:00Oh sweetheart, I am so sorry that you are sufferin...Oh sweetheart, I am so sorry that you are suffering so. I am thinking of you, I will think of Masyn tomorrow as we have a birthday/deathday celebration for Kalila. She would be six if she had lived. <BR/>I have an idea of the pain you are going through and I pray you will have relief from your regrets. There is just nothing you could have done.<BR/>You are in my heart today,<BR/>KristenMighty Morphin' Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03244716672872427829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-33607727073953017032008-04-25T19:09:00.000-07:002008-04-25T19:09:00.000-07:00That one coworker...did you pin a ribbon to her li...That one coworker...did you pin a ribbon to her lip?<BR/><BR/>You can do that this October.Papa Bradsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09795913459610115195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-88653314902247005532008-04-25T18:08:00.000-07:002008-04-25T18:08:00.000-07:00I am so sorry Lainey. I can't even begin to imagi...I am so sorry Lainey. I can't even begin to imagine how you feel, but I am so sorry for your loss.Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00977781470147646616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-68697694155463135362008-04-25T14:55:00.000-07:002008-04-25T14:55:00.000-07:00really, what do I say?*HUGS*Pain runs deep when yo...really, what do I say?<BR/><BR/>*HUGS*<BR/><BR/>Pain runs deep when you lose someone you love.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10327991964710241536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-48294804737607865922008-04-25T12:31:00.000-07:002008-04-25T12:31:00.000-07:00hey there, i'm guessing that writing down all of t...hey there, i'm guessing that writing down all of that bottled up stuff made a bit of a difference, even if not immediately. writing about it has to give you sense of peace-- knowing you can express outwardly what has seemed internally chaotic for quite a while. (rambling??...perhaps. i'm good at that). <BR/><BR/>i'm so sorry you're sad but this will get better.~melinda~https://www.blogger.com/profile/03470925428011035943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-40189367555768492322008-04-25T12:26:00.000-07:002008-04-25T12:26:00.000-07:00Sometimes you just have to give in to all those un...Sometimes you just have to give in to all those unhappy feelings, those regrets - and have a good cry. Keeping it all inside is so hard to do.<BR/>But there's nothing wrong with each day getting a little easier. It's how we survive.<BR/>Be kind to yourself and take care, you sweet "girly-girl."Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14110235078325434919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-8906260703238668282008-04-25T10:11:00.000-07:002008-04-25T10:11:00.000-07:00Oh Lainey, I'm so sorry that you're going through...Oh Lainey, I'm so sorry that you're going through this. You have so much on your plate as it is. I know your pain and feelings of regret. <BR/><BR/>Sending you love and peaceful wishes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-21969852903032384722008-04-25T08:51:00.000-07:002008-04-25T08:51:00.000-07:00Sweetie, I'm so very sorry. I understand these fee...Sweetie, I'm so very sorry. I understand these feelings so well, and I'm so sorry that it has to hurt so very much.<BR/><BR/>Let me know if you need anything, okay?Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-54268823224391228702008-04-25T08:48:00.000-07:002008-04-25T08:48:00.000-07:00i'm thinking about you. and sending you a hug. a...i'm thinking about you. and sending you a hug. and i think, mothers intuition knows best. i bet masyn was a girl. i think she is there with you now. I also think you did go through everything recently with a 2 year old and a new baby. She was right there with you the whole time. helping you and giving you comfort and strength to handle these last few weeks. in fact, i bet it was even her who provided you the much needed comic relief with the whole hubs placed in the camera hospital room.misguidedmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10512111894191254653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-1033532300316513892008-04-25T08:28:00.000-07:002008-04-25T08:28:00.000-07:00Thanks, Lainey...your prayers are much appreciated...Thanks, Lainey...your prayers are much appreciated. I am so worried, and just hope they can find the source of the infection and get it taken care of. <BR/><BR/>You're in my prayers, too, girl. Take good care of you, and hug your Sweet Baby Gage a few extra times (if that's even possible!); that's the best medicine ;)...kim-dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11650811256788756378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-49015978540408648482008-04-25T07:15:00.000-07:002008-04-25T07:15:00.000-07:00It's hard to keep this all in some days, isn't it?...It's hard to keep this all in some days, isn't it? The guilt, the sadness, that empty space all seem impossible to deal with. You have expressed what I can't seem to find the nerve to say. <BR/><BR/>You have done an incredible job handling everything that has been thrown at your family.... a good cry is definitely a necessity at times. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for sharing and I'm thinking of you.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10376239572946951940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-90461843501974208132008-04-25T07:00:00.000-07:002008-04-25T07:00:00.000-07:00I am so very sorry that you're feeling down. I do...I am so very sorry that you're feeling down. I don't blame you though, and I even understand. I don't know if you ever completely get over something like this. I've been through it myself, and I was never really comforted by anything anyone said. There's simply nothing that can be said, at least not for me. I pray that you are able to come to terms with the things you've mentioned in this post and stop feeling the guilt. God bless!Chastityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00630031458932527817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-16816960091974412492008-04-25T06:55:00.000-07:002008-04-25T06:55:00.000-07:00Thank you for sharing what must be very hard for y...Thank you for sharing what must be very hard for you to share. I hope by getting these thoughts out you can start to let go of the guilt. Better yet, you can realize that it is okay to let it go. <BR/><BR/>I have been struggling with this comment for several minutes, wanting to say something helpful but the truth is, I have no idea what you are going through. And it seems whenever a I start to type something, it sounds...wrong. <BR/><BR/>But you have helped me so much (and my Sister too) and if nothing else, I can say I am here for you if you need anything.Zephrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04036187147036400140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-4852577409953219052008-04-25T04:22:00.000-07:002008-04-25T04:22:00.000-07:00I had tears in my eyes when reading your post. I ...I had tears in my eyes when reading your post. I do not know how you feel and I do not have any words that will make you feel better. What I do have, though, is empathy. My Mother died, my husband died, my Grandmother died. Awful. Worse than I could have ever imagined. And none of it...nothing in this world, in my opinion...is worse than losing a child. Nothing. So you feel what you feel whenever you need to feel it, and just know that there are people who care. And next October 15 I will wear a pink and blue ribbon. I did not know about October 15 before, and now I do. <BR/><BR/>Take care...kim-dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11650811256788756378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-89036984077469707462008-04-25T00:26:00.000-07:002008-04-25T00:26:00.000-07:00my heart just aches for you. i can understand you...my heart just aches for you. i can understand your regrets about not asking for a cremation...but just want to encourage you to try not to go there. that is not masyn. she is free from that...she's in the wind...the bird's songs...the colorful flowers.... (i've always thought of her as a girl, too.)<BR/>i'm so sorry that you have to feel all this. i'm so thankful that you shared it though and can express it. <BR/>i'll come to your pity party any day. and wish i could have you over for a drink to cry it out. =)Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04989587338864674079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-38573440871710816992008-04-24T22:16:00.000-07:002008-04-24T22:16:00.000-07:00Sending a hug your way!! I can't imagine the feel...Sending a hug your way!! I can't imagine the feelings you must have and I think you are entitled to a pity party if you so choose. One of my best friends says that sometimes she just has to make herself cry and while she is sad, it feels good to get it all out! And since it's a pity PARTY...remember that it's your party and you can cry if you want to! But know you have many friends thinking of you :)angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07731393862211629079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-21807255887629610232008-04-24T21:38:00.000-07:002008-04-24T21:38:00.000-07:00wow....someone that i spent all day with carrying ...wow....someone that i spent all day with carrying something so heavy and i didn't even stop to notice....i'm so sorry. i wore a pink and blue ribbon on october 15th and i didn't even know you...it is an important day for me too. i think you're pretty special and i am so glad i have gotten to know you. again, i am sorry for your loss that you are feeling...even now.Hester 5https://www.blogger.com/profile/09731447812806451412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994311.post-92007155150559030342008-04-24T21:16:00.000-07:002008-04-24T21:16:00.000-07:00I am so sorry you are feeling sad. I know how hard...I am so sorry you are feeling sad. I know how hard it is to loose a child in miscarriage. It's terrible and I'm sorry you feel the way you do. <BR/><BR/>I understand what you are saying about cremation. I just think of it as flesh and souls. The most important thing, to me, is my baby's soul and that cannot be buried, trashed or cremated. <BR/><BR/>Thanks so much for sharing this.shoeaddicthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06540488940347979388noreply@blogger.com